Thursday 4/Nov/2010, Do you want to identify who is telling the truth and who is not?

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Meetiing/Event

Bringing Great NLP People Together to Practice

Special NLP Café Session at Chermside Shopping Mall

Do you really want to identify who is telling you the truth and who is not?

It all happens in this session while having some food, drinks and laughter!

This is more than just a NLP Practice Session

You will increase your ability to:

  • Calibrate
  • Multi-track any interaction
  • Observe
  • Increase Sensory awareness

Topic: Spot the Incongruence

This is an NLP Practitioner and Master Practitioner session

Date: Thursday 4/Nov/2010
Location: Meet Outside of the Starbucks, Chermside Shopping Mall, Brisbane. Location link:

http://westfield.com.au/chermside/directory/detail/store?category=1855&retailer=29409

    Time:

  • 6:00pm: Meet at the location,
  • 6:30pm: Eat, Drink and be Merry with Great Rapport,
  • 7:30 pm: Let the fun begin! We will explain to you what you need to do and start the process,
  • 8:15 pm: Re-group and debrief,
  • Finishes at 8:30pm
  • Fees: $0, No Fees for this session nothing printed and we’re not at the library, so no fees!


    RSVP this session:
    RSVP to come with great enthusiasm.

    RSVP is easy just sent us an email to let us know if you are coming

    by 12:00 pm Tuesday, 2/Nov/2010.

    “You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.” Albert Einstein

    RSVP: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com

    See you there!

    Sonya & Mark

Nightwalking – how it went on 18/Feb/2010

This is how the nightwalking went….

    Following the stars - Nightwalking (before sundown), at Mt Coot-tha, Brisbane

    Following the stars - Nightwalking (before sundown), at Mt Coot-tha, Brisbane

  • We walked from the bottom of JC Slaughter falls carpark to the Mt Coot-tha Summit (had ice-creams, drinks and quite a few laughs) and returned by the same bush path. About 4 kilometers round trip.
  • The night’s darkness was not dark enough – there was too much ambient light coming from the city lights reflecting off the low rain clouds. Retrun trip was a bit darker with some of the clouds clearing. We would like to try again on a darker night, and therefore further out of town.
  • Brin and Mark entered a cave along the way and we believe that we experienced the amount of darkness required to get the effect.
  • Some did experience a level of heightened awareness on the return journey as there were darker parts of the path and by concentrating on the light object.
  • By spreading out, and therefore relying more on your own senses, there was a greater gain in sensory awareness as we were not orientating ourselves to the person in front of us and their ups/downs and sways that gave us more information about the path ahead.
  • It seemed to us that using the luminous ‘glow in the dark’ stickers or mobile pieces was ample to focus on and that the true luminescent paint is actually not that important. We may modify this hypothesis as we try future nightwalking events though.

Watch for our future Nightwalks on the Sunshine Coast and/or Gold Coast where we will go into the hinterland to be far enough from ambient lights.

See more Nightwalking photos on this link.



Last minute assembly in the dark - Ashley

Ashley

Creating the cap - Nightwalking (after sundown), at Mt Coot-tha, Brisbane

Serious Nightwalker - Brin

What the Nightwalker see's as they walk into the darkness

What the Nightwalker see's as they walk into the darkness

Nightwalking at Mount Coot-Tha, 18-Feb-2010 18:00

Hi again and welcome to all those coming to the first night for the year where we will experience Nightwalking – to increase your peripheral vision. With a little ingenuity, you can follow the description below after the location direction easily and manufacture your own nightwalking caps, increase your peripheral vision and have a heightened experience in the process.  If you want to read more on the night walking and the previously published guide, please go to http://nlpcafebrisbane.com.au/2009/11/11/nightwalking-last-nlpcafe-for-2009/ for our earlier NLP Café Brisbane post.


Free Event,  RSVP Required

Date: 18/Feb/10
Time: 18:00 for 18:30 start
Location: JC Slaughter Falls park, Sir Samuel Griffith Dr, Mount Coot Tha
Bring: Your nightwalking cap and your own snack/dinner and a bottle of drink to share. Recommended to bring also – a torch, mobile phone, insect repellent for your own safety and convenience.

Directions

Head north-west on Mount Coot-Tha Rd towards Sir Samuel Griffith Dr

Mount Coot Tha Rd turns slightly right and becomes Sir Samuel Griffith Dr

Destination will be on your left, the entrance to JC Slaughter Falls park.

You will need to park near the entrance of Sir Samuel Griffith Dr, as the gates are supposed to close at sundown or soon after.

From the parking area, we will find the nearest table area for those who have something to eat with them to have that together there. After about 30-40 mins (dark enough), we will try our night-walking hats and head off for the experiment.


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Please register you interest so we can keep you updated – NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com
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Last NLPCafe for 2009

Final night for the year where we will talk to you about Nightwalking – to increase your peripheral vision. With a little ingenuity, you can follow their descriptions easily and manufacture your own nightwalking caps, increase your peripheral vision and have a heightened experience in the process.


NLPCafeBrisbane event

Date: Tuesday 1/Dec/09
Time: 18:00 for 18:30 start
Location: New Farm Library
Bring: Your nightwalking cap and a plate of finger food and a bottle of drink to share


We have looked at the moon phases and our availability at this stage, we cannot achieve a moonless night when we are in the country or not training until Jan/2010. We were targeting the foothills of Mt Coot-tha and we are going to check and see if this is dark enough to achieve the effect. We still need to check the expected Moonlight and the location itself.
As the conditions for Nightwalking requires a moonless night and due to our current schedule we might have to make it sometime in Jan or Feb.

But what we can do now is get the cap created and do a trial run in New Farm Park on the Tuesday 1st December. So you will need to make your own Nightwalking Cap for the evening. We will show you a prototype on 1/Dec and we can test it in New Farm Park. You can bring your own ones along too.

Register you interest so we can keep you updated – NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com

Now, from Jonathan Altfeld himself on how to make yourself a Nightwalking cap

I use:
	* A ball cap -- must fit snugly on the head, be sturdy,
		and the visor must be strong.

	* duct tape (packing tape might work, but duct tape seems best)

	* a small plastic "furniture foot" made of a half-inch plastic 
	  disc out of which emerges a small nail (they're meant to
	  be hammered into the bottom of a chair or sofa).  Any good
	  home improvement store (we have Home Depot or Lowe's in the
	  USA), even a Wal-Mart should sell these -- in little packs
	  of 4 or 8 etc.

	* photo-luminescent paint.  Find in a craft store.  Paint the
	  disc with many coats/layers of this.  Repeatedly, allowing
	  each coat to dry before adding more paint.

	* a wire hanger, bent into a shape like this (cut off excess):
	__
	 \\	
	  \\       ~16" long
	  ||___________________~
	  |                               ~____)  curl under.
	  /                                 ~4" long
        _/  
   
        * use a little tape to attach the painted furniture-foot disc 
	  to the end of the hanger rod end (facing the big C shape at
	  the other end of the wire assembly).

	* Finally, bend the C-shaped end of the hanger so that it 
	  fits flush against the curved surface of the ball cap visor.
	  Affix this C-shaped end to the top of the ball cap visor,
 	  with enough duct tape to ensure that when the ball cap is 
	  worn snugly, the wire hangar assembly does not bounce much.

If you remember, we had Jonathan Altfeld visit us a few weeks ago and some enjoyed his training the night he was here. For those who wanted to obtain any of the products that Jonathan Altfeld displayed or mentioned during the evening, visit NLP Products page to review or order now.

Guide to NightWalking

Here follows a set of condensed directions for those who want to develop their peripheral awareness. We invite adventurous readers to gain direct experience of what they are reading about. The most wonderful thing about this method is its simplicity. Peripheral awareness is available and useful to virtually everyone who can see, and with a little determination readers can master it quickly and easily. The process is akin to acquiring a new physical and basically neurological skill, like learning to ride a bicycle. It takes about the same length of time and is not as dangerous. All that’s required is the desire and a little determination.

The whole secret to mastering peripheral awareness is keeping one’s visual attention independent from focused vision.

We ordinarily attend to the point of our focus. When you can move your visual attention independently from your focused attention you’re on the road to mastery.

Before continuing, a little practical experience with peripheral vision might be helpful. Turn on your television, it doesn’t make any difference what program. If you normally wear glasses, you can put them on or not, whichever is more comfortable (peripheral vision is unaffected by corrective lenses). Sit in a chair fifteen feet (5m) or so from the set and watch whatever is on. Without taking your eyes off the screen, start moving your attention around in the visual field. Notice the edge of the throw rug on the floor underneath the set, the plant on the table by the window, the books on the shelf to the left. The important thing is to keep your eyes focused on the screen. You don’t have to stare at the set–it’s just a place for your central vision to settle. The object is to use your mind to see rather than the muscles in your eyes. Quietly observe or attend to the colors and textures in the room, the bright spots and the shadows. The closer to the edges of the peripheral field an object is, the less definite its form will be, but you’ll be surprised at how clearly you’ll know what objects are without focusing on them.

Still looking at the television, hold your arms out straight to the side from your shoulders, hands up, and slowly move your arms forward until you can see both hands at the extremes of your peripheral vision. Try to put equal and simultaneous attention on both hands. You might find it helps to wiggle your fingers and open your eyes a little wider than usual. Watch your hands for a minute or so and pay attention to the way you feel when seeing this way. Notice any changes in breathing and mood. If, when you lock your attention solidly on both hands, you sense a subtle but pronounced click you’ve just entered the realm of peripheral awareness.

Clip the NightWalking rod to the bill of a ball cap and adjust the cap so that the rod tip extends out directly in front of your eyes. (There is an up and down to the rod. Clip it on so the rod is under the clip and points slightly downward.) Keep your eyes focused on the bead at the end of the rod. If your eyes are properly focused you will see only one bead. If you see two beads, it means your focus has slipped slightly before or beyond the bead. Bring your eyes back to the bead. If you have trouble focusing, hold a finger up to the bead and look at your fingertip.

Everything beyond the bead in your central vision will be doubled–that’s as it should be. Remember that the bead is a place to “park” your eyes. You don’t have to stare at it. If you start to get a headache or experience eye strain, you’re probably trying too hard and you need to relax your eyes. Just watch the bead. The bead is just a little closer than the distance most people focus to read, and you can focus at reading distance without difficulty for considerable periods. Put your hat and rod on, rod centered, bead level with the horizon, eyes watching the bead.

Now it’s time to go outdoors and take a walk. Start with a familiar place–your back yard or the local park–and if it’s a sunny day wear sunglasses (peripheral vision is especially sensitive to bright light). If you’re feeling at all unsure take along a friend. Examine the clouds without “looking” at them. See them with your mind. Observe the trees as they pass. You may find that the experience can be like standing still while the landscape moves past you, which is comparable to the way ancient Polynesian sailors navigated. Using their knowledge of the stars and ocean currents and waves as guides, they kept their craft pointed in the direction of the destination and let it come to them–the opposite of the way our culture navigates. Keep this metaphor in mind as you walk.

Since much of what is seen peripherally is processed in the nonconscious parts of the brain, you’ll undoubtedly find, as we did, that using it to walk requires a certain act of faith, and it might take a bit of fortitude to get used to the the fact that you can “see” without being conscious of the fact that you’re seeing. After you’re comfortable in secure surroundings, add a minor degree of risk and walk down the sidewalk in front of your house or through a nearby park. Keep your focus on the rod tip and resist the temptation to switch to central vision when feeling unsure.

Slow down and/or stop if necessary. Keeping your eyes on the bead, slowly move your head from side to side, scanning with your peripheral vision before proceeding. Always keep the rod tip up near the horizon. The major task at this point is to resist moving your focused vision to the point of your visual interest.

Your peripheral awareness will probably be blurred and hazy–it will clear with use and practice. With a little persistence you’ll find that obstacles are avoided automatically. Let your unconscious brain do it’s job. Notice how other senses–balance, hearing and even smell–are stimulated and sensitized as visual attention expands. Rather than looking directly at objects as they pass, wonder about them. Try and discern an object’s nature by examining its color and pattern. After 15 or 20 minutes, stop and shift back to central vision. Pay attention to how differently the two states feel, the alert calm of the peripheral state versus central vision’s almost nervous concern for detail. Start practicing entering the peripheral state at work and at home with the simple reminder to “go wide.” See with your mind rather than your eyes.

Into the Dark

This is a lonely place, but as we walk through it on the darkest night it’s like a spirit world. The darkness is filled with speckles of bioluminescence and ghosts left in deep arroyos by the shadows of starlight. We can’t see the ground at our feet–the rocks, the sticks, the cactus, the prairie dog holes–because we’re gazing at a tiny phosphorescent dot set a foot in front of our noses. Although we’re not conscious of seeing these obstacles, our minds do see them, see them clearly and deliver silent, sure instructions to the feet as we glide with perfect safety over rough terrain. It is like walking on faith, supported by a serene confidence, every one of our senses alert. The mind is left free to explore the night spread across the wide-screen field of vision. What we are doing is NightWalking.

Before NightWalking, increase your daily intake of Vitamin A to 50,000 IU. Vitamin A is necessary for the formation of visual purple, the substance in the eyes which enables them to adjust from bright light to darkness. If you want to increase your night vision even more, avoid alcohol, nicotine, carbon monoxide, fatigue, high-fat meals and bright sunlight for thirty-six hours before NightWalking.

Find an old road or a trail in the country, as far as possible from city lights and free from distractions, and lay out a route of a mile or mile and a half. You might want to include a stretch along the way that goes through woods or an open field. Walk the route once or twice in the daylight, paying particular attention to landmarks along the way. Plan your walk for a moonless night. We usually don’t go out other than a few days on either side of the new moon. It may be hard to believe at this point, but the light of even a quarter moon is more of a distraction that an aid to seeing in the dark.

Further reading if you want to…

For our first real moonless night out (later) – Looking at the Earth at night it is hard to get enough darkness near cities these days, but we will try the foothills of Mt Coot-tha, so we will try around this location. Google’s map is generally around the area, but we will check it out first and see if it is safe, and dark enough.

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NLP Practice evening, Thursday 29 Oct 09, 18:30 – 20:30, New Farm Library

NLP Café Brisbane

Thursday 29 Oct 09

Topic: Have you elicited Unconscious Signals yet?

This is for NLP practitioners and NLP Master practitioners only.
Come and join us for this special session on Thursday 29 Oct 09

Topics:

1. Foundation Skills – Sub-modality fest (quick drill, different to our last week)
2. Main topic – Have you elicited Unconscious Signals yet?
3. New Code Change Format

RSVP required

Date: Thursday 29 Oct 09

Food: Some snacks, fruits, tea and coffee are provided. There is microwave to heat up food as well.

Time:

6:00 – Cafe Door Opens – Feel free to bring some food to heat up in the Microwave, have some snacks or have a cuppa (Tea and Coffee supplied)
6:30 – Session Starts
8:30 – Cafe Closes

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, (07) 3403 1062 and our number 0439 307585

Fees: $5.00 at the door

Benefits

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in an environment that stretches your capabilities in New Code NLP and possibly a new process for you.
  • For anyone: Connection with your unconscious will be a feature.

RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

NLP Cafe Brisbane, 6/Oct/09 (Open to public)

NLP Café Brisbane
RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

Tuesday, 6-Oct-2009

Topic: Open Coaching / Mentoring (Public Workshop) and Schedule of activities

This is for both practitioners and public.

It is also great for those who are new to or know little about NLP to taste the way NLP coaching can be with a mentored coach. You can also sample what NLP is like.

Get Clarity – “Open Coaching / Mentoring Session”

With quality trained practitioners and professional coaches. Note that space is limited; RSVP now to get in quick!

For just $5.00, you gain insight, tools and skills for a better life & we deepen our craft!

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, Brisbane
Date: Tuesday, 6 Oct 2009
Time: Door opens at 6:00pm, 6:15pm for registration, session Starts at 6:30pm, Finishes at 8:30pm
Food: Some snacks, fruit, tea & coffee provided. Microwave available to heat food
Fees: $5 at the door (to cover snacks and any materials produced)
For RSVP and for more information: call us on 07 3355 9714 or NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com

RSVP Essential!

Fees: $5 for preparation and printing materials and we also provide a snack, fruit, tea & coffee, and there is a Microwave/Kitchen to heat a meal.

Benefits

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in a coaching / mentoring environment
  • For Couples, Parents and Managers: if your not a practioner, come as a client
  • For Individuals: Whether or not you are a practitioner, you can come as a client for some free coaching or therapy!

RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

“Open Coaching / Mentoring Session” is as described in the 26-Feb-09 session… This is a special session for NLP Practitioners who want to participate in the
Open Coaching / Mentoring activities, but this week with clients attending. If you want to be a client, plese indicate when you call or register by email.

What is NLP
Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is the study of success. It has tools for creating and facilitating personal and professional change in yourself and others.
Find out More go to http://www.blue-skytransformation.com.au/whatisnlp.html

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NLP Café Brisbane’s current meeting venue

NLP Practice evening, Thursday 24 Sep 09, 18:30 – 21:00, New Farm Library

NLP Café Brisbane

Thursday 24 Sep 09

Topic: Have you elicited Unconscious Signals yet?

This is for NLP practitioners and NLP Master practitioners only.
Come and join us for this special session on Thursday 24 Sep 09

Topics:

1. Foundation Skills – Sub-modality fest (quick drill)
2. Something new – What’s happening in the New Code NLP world?
3. Main topic – Have you elicited Unconscious Signals yet?

RSVP required

Date: Thursday 24 Sep 09

Food: Some snacks, fruits, tea and coffee are provided. There is microwave to heat up food as well.

Time:

6:00 – Cafe Door Opens – Feel free to bring some food to heat up in the Microwave, have some snacks or have a cuppa (Tea and Coffee supplied)
6:30 – Session Starts
9:00 – Cafe Closes

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, (07) 3403 1062 and our number 0439 307585

Fees: $5.00 at the door

Benefits

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in an environment that stretches your capabilities in New Code NLP and possibly a new process for you.
  • For anyone: Connection with your unconscious will be a feature.

RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

NLP Practice evening, Tuesday 7 July 09, 18:30 – 21:00, New Farm Library

NLP Café Brisbane

Tuesday 7 July 09

Topic: Unconscious Signals, n Steps of Reframe, Words that move people

This is for NLP practitioners and NLP Master practitioners only.
Come and join us for this special session on Tuesday 7 July 09

Topics:
1. Practice – New Code NLP: unconscious signals and N steps of Reframe
2. Practice – From Impossibility to Possibility – Words that move people

RSVP required

Date: Tuesday 7 July 09

Food: Some snacks, fruits, tea and coffee are provided. There is microwave to heat up food as well.

Time:

6:00 – Cafe Door Opens – Feel free to bring some food to heat up in the Microwave, have some snacks or have a cuppa (Tea and Coffee supplied)
6:30 – Session Starts
9:00 – Cafe Closes

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, (07) 3403 1062

Fees: $5.00 at the door

Benefits

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in an environment that stretches your capabilities in New Code NLP and possibly a new process for you.
  • For anyone: Connection with your unconscious.

RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

Public Work Shop, Thursday 30 April 2009 – When your Strategy Turns Into a Tragedy!

NLP Café Brisbane

Thursday, 30-Apr-2009

Topic: When your Strategy Turns Into a Tragedy! – Open Coaching / Mentoring

This is for NLP practitioners and NLP Master practitioners and the unsuspecting Public.

Back by popular demand! Please join us and feel free to let your friends know about this work shop.

You will learn how to find out any of your subconscious strategies that repeatedly harm your relationships, careers or finances, in other words, a strategy that turned into a tragedy. For just $5, you will learn how to apply the process for yourself, to others and be assisted by other NLP trained professionals.

Seats are limited RSVP is Essential.

Practitioners: This is Jan Prince’s Stragedy Process which is based on Robert Dilts “Logical Levels”. We will share with you three different ways that you can apply this process.

Date: Thursday, 30 April 2009

Food: Some snacks, fruits, tea and coffee are provided. There is microwave to heat up food as well.

Time:

6:00 – Cafe Door Opens – Feel free to bring some food to heat up in the Microwave, have some snacks or have a cuppa (Tea and Coffee supplied)
6:30 – Session Starts
8:30 – Cafe Closes

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, (07) 3403 1062

Fees: $5.00 at the door

Benefits

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in an environment that stretches your capabilities
  • For anyone: Find out any hidden strategies in your life that might be tripping you up from time to time

RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

NLP Speed Circuit, 26-Mar-09

NLP Café Brisbane

Thursday, 26-Mar-2009

Topic: NLP Speed Circuit for Open Coaching / Mentoring

This is NLP practitioners and NLP Master practitioners only.

As described in the 26-Feb-09 session…

A fun night for sure! Let’s do the NLP Speed Circuit to strengthen your NLP muscles. You will end up feeling high on NLP. You will experience the art of co-coaching to gain the most out of the Open Coaching / Mentoring experience.

Fees: $5 for preparation and printing materials and we also provide a snack, fruit, tea & coffee, and there is a Microwave/Kitchen to heat a meal.

Benefits

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in an environment that stretches your capabilities

RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

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NLP Cafe Brisbane – Open Coaching / Mentoring Session

NLP Café Brisbane

Topic: How to gain most out of Open Coaching / Mentoring sessions (NLP Practioner Only)

Improve and market your services with the “Open Coaching / Mentoring Session”.

This is really a landmark session to establish some of the ways we will be providing the Open Coaching / Mentoring Sessions throughout the year.

  • Do you want more people to know what you can do for them?
  • Do you want to provide quality services to your clients?
  • Do you believe we can all learn and assist each other?
  • Do you believe there are benefits for all in creating a good reputation that NLP deserves?

If you answer is ‘yes’ this is the session for you.

This is a special session for NLP Practitioners who want to participate in the Open Coaching / Mentoring activities.

You will experience the art of co-coaching to gain the most out of the Open Coaching / Mentoring experience.

You will also learn what you need to do and understand before you attend the Open Coaching / Mentoring sessions.

During the Open Coaching and Mentoring Sessions the general public can have a free session while you practice your craft. These sessions will allow you to:

  • Use effective client feedback, to find out what worked and what did not.
  • Observe different approaches from other practitioners via the co-coaching process
  • Using modelling techniques to gain insight
  • Bring your business card and marketing materials to allow interested potential clients to take and learn more about you.

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in a coaching / mentoring environment

 

 


Turn off the TV for the night and come along and improve your future

Be the one that stands out from the crowd with NLP

“When people say to me: ‘How do you do so many things?’ I often answer them, without meaning to be cruel: ‘How do you do so little?’ It seems to me that people have vast potential. Most people can do extraordinary things if they have the confidence or take the risks. Yet most people don’t. They sit in front of the telly and treat life as if it goes on forever.” — Philip Adams

Turn off the TV for the night and come along and improve your future. Be the one that stands out from the crowd with NLP. Learn some simple and complex NLP techniques, new code NLP, classic code NLP and related processes.

NLP Cafe in Brisbane is follow up coaching for specific NLP skills.

Follow-up Coaching like this increases productivity by 88% according to research documented in a Journal article by Gerald Olivero, K. Denise Bane, Richard E. Kopelman; Public Personnel Management, Vol. 26, 1997.

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