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A therapeutic effect is a consequence of a particular treatment which is judged to be desirable and beneficial.

Open Coaching and Mentoring, Thursday 24/Jun/2010

Posted by nlpcafequeensland on June 16, 2010

Bringing Great NLP People Together to Practice
Note: The date of this night is different from what was previously advertised

Practice your NLP skills and help others at the same time!

Thursday 24/Jun/2010

We have gone through the effort to organise the venue and have done all the preparation for you.

All you need to do is RSVP to come with a friend for them to receive the benefit of personal coaching at a minimum fee.

RSVP is essential! Please let us know if you are coming and your friend’s name and contact email (for confirmation of spaces) by 12:00 Wednesday 23/June/2010.

If you are not bringing anyone, please let us know as well, we will do our best to match coach and clients.

If you are not a NLP Practitioner and would like to attend, please RSVP and let us know you would like to be a client only.


RSVP:

NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com and your friend’s name and contact email (for confirmation of spaces) by 12:00 Wednesday 23/June/2010.

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, Brisbane

Date: Thursday 24/Jun/2010

Time: Door opens at 6:00pm, 6:15pm for registration, session Starts at 6:30pm, Finishes at 8:30pm
Food: Some snacks, fruit, tea & coffee provided. Microwave available to heat food
Fees: $15 (to cover snacks and any materials produced)

We appreciate if you can pay by bank transfer prior to attending to help us organise this event. payment at the door will be accepted.

Bank Transfer to:
A/C Name:Blue-Sky Transformation
BSB: 064-116
Account number: 1015 5575
Reference: Your Name+”Café” (for example: Sonya Spencer Cafe)

Every payment comes with a receipt.

RSVP Essential!

See our first posting on Open Coaching / Mentoring to what it is all about and how it works. Fees stateted in the blog post might differ from this notification.
Benefits

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in a coaching / mentoring environment
  • For Couples, Parents and Managers: if you’re not a practitioner, come as a client
  • For Individuals: Whether or not you are a practitioner, you can come as a client for some coaching and assistance!

What is NLP?
Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is the study of success. It has tools for creating and facilitating personal and professional change in yourself and others.
Find out More go to http://www.blue-skytransformation.com.au/whatisnlp.html

 

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Tuesday, 11 May 2010 – Open Coaching / Mentoring

Posted by Mark on May 3, 2010

RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

Due to the recent fee charges from the New Farm Library, all events will go ahead if a sufficient number of members are attending.  RSVP is essential!

The focus is to help you practice your art and during the process you will be able to:

  • Let more people know what you can do for them
  • Deepen your skill set to provide quality services to your clients
  • Learn and assist fellow NLP Practitioners
  • Fostering a good reputation for NLP that will ultimately assist you.

See our first posting on Open Coaching / Mentoring to what it is all about and how it works.

!! Important !!

To ensure that everyone gets the chance to work with different people every time….

You need to bring a client for the session.
You will be working with clients who were brought in by other NLP Practitioners.

When RSVP:

For NLP Practitioners and Master Practitioners: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com and please notify us the name of the person you are bringing as a client.

For Clients: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com and please notify us if you are attending as a client and also, if you are bringing a person along as a client too.

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, Brisbane

 
Time: Door opens at 6:00pm, 6:15pm for registration, session Starts at 6:30pm, Finishes at 8:30pm

 
Food: Some snacks, fruit, tea & coffee provided. Microwave available to heat food
Fees: $10 at the door (to cover snacks and any materials produced)
Fee Payment: please confirm your RSVP with payment by Bank Transfer to:
BSB: 064-116
Account number: 1015 5575
Reference: Your Name+”Café” (for example: Sonya Spencer Cafe)
If you do a Bank Transfer, we can issue you with a receipt.

RSVP Essential!

Fees: $10 for preparation and printing materials and we also provide a snack, fruit, tea & coffee, and there is a Microwave/Kitchen to heat a meal.

Benefits

 
 

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in a coaching / mentoring environment
  • For Couples, Parents and Managers: if your not a practioner, come as a client
  • For Individuals: Whether or not you are a practitioner, you can come as a client for some free coaching or therapy!

 

What is NLP?

Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is the study of success. It has tools for creating and facilitating personal and professional change in yourself and others.
Find out More, go to What is NLP

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Tuesday, 2 March 2010 – Open Coaching / Mentoring session

Posted by Mark on February 25, 2010

Tuesday, 2 March 2010

Open Coaching / Mentoring session

NLP Café Brisbane
RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

Tuesday, 2 March 2010

Topic: Open Coaching / Mentoring (Public Workshop)

This is for both practitioners and public.

It is also great for those who are new to or know little about NLP to taste the way NLP coaching can be with a mentored coach. You can also sample what NLP is like.

Get Clarity – “Open Coaching / Mentoring Session”

With quality trained practitioners and professional coaches. Note that space is limited; RSVP now to get in quick!

For just $15.00, you gain insight, tools and skills for a better life & we deepen our craft!

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, Brisbane
Date: Tuesday, 2 March 2010
Time: Door opens at 6:00pm, 6:15pm for registration, session Starts at 6:30pm, Finishes at 8:30pm
Food: Some snacks, fruit, tea & coffee provided. Microwave available to heat food
Fees: $15 at the door (to cover snacks and any materials produced)
Fee Payment: please confirm your RSVP with payment by Bank Transfer to:
BSB: 064-116
Account number: 1015 5575
Reference: Your Name+”Café” (for example: Sonya Spencer Cafe)
If you do a Bank Transfer, we can issue you with a receipt.

For RSVP and for more information: call us on 07 3355 9714 or NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com

RSVP Essential!

Fees: $15 for preparation and printing materials and we also provide a snack, fruit, tea & coffee, and there is a Microwave/Kitchen to heat a meal.

Benefits

  • For Therapist: Enhance your skills by learning in a coaching / mentoring environment
  • For Couples, Parents and Managers: if your not a practioner, come as a client
  • For Individuals: Whether or not you are a practitioner, you can come as a client for some free coaching or therapy!

RSVP Required: NLPCafeBrisbane@gmail.com for more details

“Open Coaching / Mentoring Session” is as described in the Café post: Open Coaching / Mentoring session
This is a special session for NLP Practitioners who want to participate in the
Open Coaching / Mentoring activities, but this week with clients attending. If you want to be a client, plese indicate when you call or register by email.

What is NLP
Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) is the study of success. It has tools for creating and facilitating personal and professional change in yourself and others.
Find out More go to http://www.blue-skytransformation.com.au/whatisnlp.html

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Calendar for 2010

Posted by Mark on January 28, 2010

For each NLPCafe night, unless otherwise mentioned – the following applies:

Food: Some snacks, fruits, tea and coffee are provided. There is microwave to heat up food as well.

Time:

6:00 – Cafe Door Opens – Feel free to bring some food to heat up in the Microwave, have some snacks or have a cuppa (Tea and Coffee supplied)
6:30 – Session Starts
8:30 – Cafe Closes

Location: New Farm Library, 135 Sydney St, New Farm, (07) 3403 1062 and our number 0439 307585

Fees: $15 at the door (to cover snacks and any materials produced) (New costs for 2010)
Fee Payment: please confirm your RSVP with payment by Bank Transfer to:
BSB: 064-116
Account number: 1015 5575
Reference: Your Name+”Café” (for example: Sonya Spencer Cafe)
If you do a Bank Transfer, we can issue you with a receipt.


Thursday, 18 Feb 2010, Night Walking,
This is a special session for NLP Practitioners and public participants who want to develop their peripheral awareness.
For more details please read our Café post on the 11/Nov/09: http://nlpcafebrisbane.com.au/

Tuesday, 2 March 2010
Open Coaching / Mentoring session
For more details please read our Café post on: Open Coaching / Mentoring Sessions

Thursday, 25 March 09
A fun night for sure! Let’s do the NLP Speed Circuit to strengthen your NLP muscles. You will end up feeling high on NLP.

Tuesday, 6 April, 2010
This is a special session for Practitioner and Master Practitioner only to test “Synchronised unconscious signal elicitation”. This part of the International Trainers Academy initiative to test a phenomenon that synchronises unconscious signal elicitation between the practitioner and their associates.

Tuesday, 11 May, 2010Open Coaching / Mentoring session

Thursday, 27 May, 2010
Master the art of Modelling part 1. This is a practitioner only night and let’s focus on the core of NLP by modelling another person to acquire an unique skill. More details and format will be published soon.

Tuesday, 1 June, 2010
Action-packed evening! Let’s do the NLP Speed Circuit to strengthen your NLP muscles. You will end up feeling high on NLP.

Thursday, 24 June, 2010
Master the art of Modelling part 2. This is a practitioner only night and let’s focus on the core of NLP by modelling another person to acquire an unique skill. More details and format will be published soon.

Tuesday, 6 July, 2010Open Coaching / Mentoring session

Thursday, 29 July, 2010
Practicing NLP Hypnotic Patterns

Tuesday, 7 September, 2010
Open Coaching / Mentoring session

Thursday, 30 September, 2010
Master the art of Modelling part 3. This is a practitioner only night and let’s focus on the core of NLP by modelling another person to acquire an unique skill. More details and format will be published soon.

Tuesday, 5 October, 2010
Special topics, more details coming soon.

Thursday, 28 October, 2010Special topics, more details coming soon.

Tuesday, 2 November, 2010Open Coaching / Mentoring session

Thursday, 25 November, 2010
Special topics, more details coming soon.

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NLP not Therapy?

Posted by Mark on March 12, 2009

There has been much discussion in some circles, as to whether NLP is Therapy or not, and I love this one. Therapy is an over-used term for some, so it may have meanings attached for each person reading this…

Drawing an analogy from the another common definition – when is a hill a mountain or a so-called mountain actually a hill? There is no universal definition for hills and mountains, as there are differences world-wide on the distinction. There are admissions given for where a hill or mountain has been named by the local people; some definitions quote height ranges, some quote angles for the structure, and some refer to the abruptness of the structure realting to the surrounding landscape. (See end of this Post for the full analogy). A mountain or hill’s <em>height </em>and <em>name </em>is very subjective. So is the definition of NLP in relation to <em>therapy</em>, or is it the definition of <em>therapy </em>in relation to NLP….

Early quotes from Grinder and Bandler were all around <strong>therapy</strong>….

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<li>NLP was based upon the modeling of 3 major <strong>therapists</strong>. Not just any <strong>therapists</strong>, “master <strong>psychotherapists</strong>”, Fritz Perls, Virginia Satir, and Milton Erickson.
<li>Grinder and Bandler reviewed many hours of audio and video of the three <strong>therapists </strong>and spent months imitating how they worked with clients, in order to replicate or ‘model’ the communication patterns which supposedly made these individuals more successful than their peers. The studies were an attempt to identify why particular <strong>psychotherapists </strong>were so effective with their patients. Rather than take a purely theoretical approach, Bandler and Grinder sought to observe what the <strong>therapists </strong>were doing, categorize it, and ‘model’ it.
<li><em>”…when you watch and listen to Virginia Satir and Milton Erickson do <strong>therapy</strong>, they apparently could not be more different … People also report that the experiences of being with them are profoundly different. However, if you examine their behavior and the essential key patterns and sequences of what they do, they are similar. … The same was true of Fritz Perls … when he was operating in what I consider a powerful and effective way, he was using the same sequences of patterns that you will find in their work.</em> – Bandler, R., Grinder, J. (1979). Frogs into Princes: Neuro Linguistic Programming. Moab, UT: Real People Press.. pp. 149 (p.8 (quote).
<li>Book name examples – The Structure of Magic I: A Book About Language and <strong>Therapy</strong>. Bandler, Richard., and John Grinder (1975a). Palo Alto, CA
<li>Later associations with ‘therapists’ – They also quote Frank Farrelly, creater of Provocative <strong>Therapy</strong>.
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<em>Therapy </em>or <em>treatment</em>, is the attempted remediation of a health problem, usually following a diagnosis. In the medical field, it is synonymous with the word “treatment”. With this association, it conjurs up some sort of fixing something. Moving to <em>therapeutic</em>, the definition is a little more open – <em>A therapeutic effect is a consequence of a particular treatment which is judged to be desirable and beneficial.</em>

My opinion….
For me it depends on what I am doing as to whether NLP is Therapy or not. One moment I may be using NLP for some ‘therapy’ with a client, and an hour or two later, I may be using a very different personal process that helps me with sorting out my intentions, and later defining an outcome with my finances, and later still writing an email for a work-related project. When does anything we ever do become therapy? By this definition: <em>A therapeutic effect is a consequence of a particular treatment which is judged to be desirable and beneficial.</em> I could help someone with the photocopier where I work and it be therapeutic – maybe it is if my <em>treatment </em>of my fellow staff members is congruent…. Talking may be therapeutic, and relaxation may also be. Both of these could also cause stress or anxiety under some circumstances.

It is my opinion that you cannot learn anything about NLP (on a training course) without at least being instructed on how to ‘do therapy’ – at least one of the patterns you will be trained in should involve therapy. You may never want to be a therapist, but you will learn ‘therapy’ amongst many other items.

<h4>Hill and Mountain analogy notes</h4>
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Case in point – <a href=”>Castle’” DESIGNTIMESP=23870>http://www.about-australia.com/queensland/townsville/articles/destination-townsville/”>Castle Hill in Townsville, Australia</a> is named a Hill, but is often decribed as a mountain in the same sentence – <em>Appreciate the beauty of the city and nearby Magnetic Island from Castle <strong>Hill</strong>, the rugged <strong>mountain </strong>that gives Townsville a unique rustic appeal.</em><img alt=”" src=”http://i161.photobucket.com/albums/t235/Twirling_Tiger/townsville-1.jpg” title=”Castle Hill, Townsville” class=”alignleft” width=”319″ />
<a href=”The’” DESIGNTIMESP=23873>http://australia.shopsafe.com.au/queensland_attractions/townsville_area_attractions/townsville/castle_hill-historical_sites_heritage_locations.htm”>The hill is just metres short of being classified as a mountain</a>, and many years ago, a local Townsville man gathered other enthusiasts and they all started carting rocks and cement to the top and tried to make it a mountain so that it could be renamed a mountain. I don’t believe that it ever reached the ‘required’ height – but what book of rules was he reading? This guy could have saved a lot of time and effort if he had read the Dictionary – In the Oxford English Dictionary a mountain is defined as <em>”a natural elevation of the earth surface rising more or less abruptly from the surrounding level and attaining an altitude which, relatively to the adjacent elevation, is impressive or notable.”</em> Based upon this, it had to be natural (his fellow mountain making slaves could be classed as ‘natural’ in some senses, but man-made cement may not be), and it is already abrupt, impressive or notable.

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The <a href=”wikipedia’” DESIGNTIMESP=23876>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mountain”>wikipedia definition of a mountain</a>
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In the United States, the following points of measurement have been used and taught in geography classes:
* Flat to 500 feet, base to highest point – Rolling Plain
* Highest point 501 to 999 feet above base – Hill
* Highest point 1000 feet or more above base – Mountain
Whether a landform is called a mountain may depend on usage among the local people. The highest point in San Francisco, California, is called Mount Davidson, notwithstanding its height of 990 feet, which makes it ten feet short of the minimum for a mountain in American appellation.
Other definitions of “mountain” include:
* Height over base of at least 2,500m
* Height over base of 1500-2500m with a slope greater than 2 degrees
* Height over base of 1000-1500m with a slope greater than 5 degrees
* Local (radius 7 km) elevation greater than 300m, or 300-1000m if local (radius 7 km) elevation is greater than 300m
By this definition, mountains cover 64% of Asia, 25% of Europe, 22% of South America, 17% of Australia, and 3% of Africa. As a whole, 24% of the Earth’s land mass is mountainous and 10% of people live in mountainous regions. Most of the world’s rivers are fed from mountain sources, and more than half of humanity depends on mountains for water.
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